WELCOME TO ESE
The Poised Girl Academy
At The Eastern School of Etiquette (ESE), we believe every girl deserves the opportunity to become confident, emotionally intelligent, purpose-driven, and prepared for life.
Our youth programs are designed to develop the whole young lady—from the inside out. While etiquette is the tool we use, transformation is the outcome. We help girls cultivate inner poise, strengthen their character, build healthy confidence, develop emotional intelligence, and communicate with grace in every area of life.
Guided by our signature POISED™ Framework—Presence, Order, Intention, Self, Expression, and Distinction—girls ages 8–17 learn the essential life skills needed to navigate friendships, school, leadership opportunities, social situations, and future careers with confidence, wisdom, and authenticity.
Our programs go far beyond teaching manners.
We help girls discover who they are, develop the confidence to make wise decisions, communicate with respect and clarity, lead with integrity, and present the best version of themselves to the world.
Because at ESE, we don't simply teach girls how to behave.
We Inspire girls to Become Her.
Poise is Internal. Grace is Expressed.
Give It To Get It: Respect & Courtesy
Respect is more than good manners—it is a reflection of character, self-awareness, and intentional living.
This workshop develops the Intention pillar of the POISED™ Framework by helping young ladies recognize that every interaction is an opportunity to demonstrate kindness, empathy, and respect. Through engaging discussions and practical experiences, participants learn that the way they communicate, listen, and respond is a choice—one that shapes relationships, builds trust, and influences how they are perceived by others.
Young ladies explore how respect begins with honoring themselves and extends to family, friends, educators, peers, and their online communities. They gain the confidence to communicate with thoughtfulness, resolve conflicts respectfully, and contribute positively to every environment they enter.
Outcomes
Understand that respect and courtesy are intentional choices that reflect strong character.
Strengthen communication, active listening, and thoughtful conversation skills.
Develop empathy, kindness, and emotional awareness in everyday interactions.
Practice respectful behavior in both in-person and digital environments.
Build healthier relationships through positive, respectful communication.
Gain confidence in navigating social situations with maturity, integrity, and grace.
